Ups and Downs

Well this post will mostly be about downs. My weight finally is 180.2... I wish I could be happier and celebrating it a bit more, and maybe I'll feel more like it when it is 170-something.

Unfortunately, I'm really down too. Ben broke up with me yesterday, and his reasons were valid but that doesn't make them any easier to here or make me feel less sad about it. It's still fresh and I know that I'll feel better each day, but waking up this morning and then remembering... That really really sucked. I am trying to be strong, to keep myself busy and to remember I'll be on an even more needed vacation in just 11 days... But I have a three hour break this afternoon and I'm kinda worried that I'm gonna spend it moping. So if you could all blog a whooooole lot to keep me busy, that'd surely help.

Love and Hugs,
Ange

15 comments:

Athena's Melting said...

I'm sorry to hear that. I know that's tough. You're right tho, probably the best thing for you is to stay very busy and not let your mind go idle.
((hugs))

Bandita Senorita said...

Ugh. I'm sorry someone as nice as you is having to go through that. I agree about keeping busy. And just think positive and keep that vacay in mind!!!

Big hugs from Florida!!

Nicole said...

Sorry to hear this Angie :(
Hang in there, we are all there for you! xo

Yana said...

Awe, here's a big internet hug!

That sucks, dude. Not much more than that to say.

EXCEPT: (have you ever known me not to have much to say) This seems to have been a positive relationship, for the most part. So remember that is possible. Also, I have decided that every man I dated before I met Eric was there to help me understand what I wanted and didn't want in a relationship.

That being said, it sucks, and I'm sorry you have to go through it.

JAG said...

Angie- I am sorry. I went through a bad break up awhile ago and it is tough. There is a break-up page on ivillage that helped me out. Here is the link if you are interested:

http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnsbreakingup/topics/0,,4tdc,00.html?ice=ivl,searcht

**Hugs***

-Jill

Southern Belle said...

Angie, I am really sorry that you are having to go through this. I know that staying busy will help as will the upcoming vacation. We are all here for you and thinking of you!

Bianca J said...

I was sorry to read about the break-up, it's never an easy thing to go through, {big hug}.

On a positive note, you're so close to the 7's, you'll be there before you know it.

Catherine55 said...

That is terrible!!! I am so sorry to hear that, since you seemed so happy with him. :( Oh well -- this is totally his loss. You are an amazing, fun, pretty and cool girl, and you will meet someone else who is an even better fit soon.

xoxoxo,
Catherine

Sherry said...

Boys suck! Really though, I know its not easy going through a breakthrough but you gotta kiss alot of frogs, sweetie. The right guy is out there, I promise! I know it sounds trite to say that but it is true. As soon as you stop looking Mr. Right pops his little head up and asks you to dinner. Happens all the time...XOXO

Tiffani said...

((HUGS)) I'm sorry babe.

But congrats on the new low weight!

Girl Bandit said...

So sorry to hear that Angie....it sucks. Take care

Angie said...

Thank you for all your nice comments - today has been a busy day and I'm doing well... A lot better than I would have thought I'd be able to. Really appreciate the loving.

lori said...

he just wasn't the one you are meant for. but you will find the one. and oh how glorious that will be! just keep reminding yourself that your sadness will pass. focus on your weight loss goal, and all the bright things the future has in store for you.

Jacquie said...

(((hugs))) Keep busy and look ahead.

Liz - Lizzle - Libby Lou said...

Awww that sucks man! *hugs* It can be tough or super tough! I just hope you keep your head held high, give yourself time to heal, and then find someone more worthy of your time.

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